Have you commited an adultery ?

[felicissimus]

An "adultery" or "adulterium" is defined as seducing and having an intercourse with a married or divorced woman ,one that is engaged roughly .Supposedly they are mature .Adultery is generally not being with "girls" .

I ask this because I notice sometimes I am instantaneously and beyond my control attracted irresistibly to mature women just like that in a blink of an eye .And even I hardly can stop that momentaneous spark .At the same time I never get at once attracted to a girl no matter how nice and beautiful she is ?! It would take time . But mature women ?!

What about you and what may the explanation be ? And how do you find these women ?

[Aetius]

Maybe....

No never commited adultery. But sometimes I am attracted to older woman but usually not. I am just attracted to women in general, if you know what I mean. :wink:

[Douchebag]

Maybe....

No never commited adultery. But sometimes I am attracted to older woman but usually not. I am just attracted to women in general, if you know what I mean. :wink:

quoted for truth.

[Erich von Manstein]

Also lying within the bounds of adultery is a married person having sexual relations with another person, be they unmarried or married. Otherwise we married men could continue to ravage college girls and it wouldn't be adultery

[felicissimus]

Also lying within the bounds of adultery is a married person having sexual relations with another person, be they unmarried or married. Otherwise we married men could continue to ravage college girls and it wouldn't be adultery

Yes I missed it in the definition you are right .

[Vanquisher]

I have.

[William the Bastard]

Yeah I have because forbidden fruit tastes soo much better.

[Noble Savage]

Yes I have It was good at the time but hated myself afterwards (all 4 times) damn guilt

[felicissimus]

Yeah I have because forbidden fruit tastes soo much better.

Is that the real reason ? Isn't it because they actually know how to behave and are more charming ? And with them you nicely come to the point ?

[removeduser_426582376423734]

Have I had sex?

I don't need your pity.

[William the Bastard]

Is that the real reason ? Isn't it because they actually know how to behave and are more charming ? And with them you nicely come to the point ?

I definitely "Came" to some point or other! She was in her early thirties and I was 18. The fact that she knew exactly what she wanted and I had the stamina to keep up and go a little further only heightened the experience. Never say never. Particularly if you know that seeing that person again is very unlikely (or her husband).

I don't need your pity.

Your time will come little Shyam. My advice is to enjoy practicing and training before the big game!

[Losercrusader]

I believe in fidelity. This comes after many, many frustrating years of supressing my id. Not healthy, but it just dosen't feel right in the long run.

[Cúchulainn]

Well does this count as adultery because I have done this. Except for the kids and the marraige bit, well she was married.

It's just a cartoon, alright, don't have a fit
Be grateful I didn't have a fit. next time, I will. Removing coffee stains from clothes is expensive... - imb39

[The Walrus]

I haven't experienced the heavenly experience yet

Well...*coughelliotcough*

[Big War Bird]

An "adultery" or "adulterium" is defined as seducing and having an intercourse with a married or divorced woman ,one that is engaged roughly .Supposedly they are mature .Adultery is generally not being with "girls" .

I ask this because I notice sometimes I am instantaneously and beyond my control attracted irresistibly to mature women just like that in a blink of an eye .And even I hardly can stop that momentaneous spark .At the same time I never get at once attracted to a girl no matter how nice and beautiful she is ?! It would take time . But mature women ?!

What about you and what may the explanation be ? And how do you find these women ?

Older Women are much better lovers. They *know* how to please a man.

[The Good]

Most of you already know this I hope, but you can get STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) by "adultering" non-virgin women.

I mean no offence to any of you, but I just want you to know that it could jepardise your health...

[Visna]

An "adultery" or "adulterium" is defined as seducing and having an intercourse with a married or divorced woman ,one that is engaged roughly .Supposedly they are mature .Adultery is generally not being with "girls" .

*Sigh*
Apart from the flawed definition there are a couple of things wrong with this.
So divorced women are not allowed to have sex anymore? What about widows?
Oh, and just for your information, women can also be adulterers (sp?). Only, they tend to be so with men.

I ask this because I notice sometimes I am instantaneously and beyond my control attracted irresistibly to mature women just like that in a blink of an eye .And even I hardly can stop that momentaneous spark .At the same time I never get at once attracted to a girl no matter how nice and beautiful she is ?! It would take time . But mature women ?!

This says two things about you.
1. You're not unique among young men in any way, shape or form.
2. You have no idea about what adultery is. I'll give you a hint. It's not having sex with mature women...

What about you and what may the explanation be ? And how do you find these women ?

Are you looking for tips and tricks?

Most of you already know this I hope, but you can get STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) by "adultering" non-virgin women.

I mean no offence to any of you, but I just want you to know that it could jepardise your health...

And I mean no offence to you, but that has got to take the prize as the lamest post of the decade.
You can get STDs from pretty much anybody, even virgins. Apart from avoiding undesirable or unwanted pregnancies that's why some bright minds have invented contraceptions, condoms for instance.
So if you have sex out of wedlock with a non-virgin women, your greatest concern would be the threat of a STD???
And is she is a virgin then it's appearantly ok, because you can then do so without "jeopardising your health"???
Here is an idea for a funny experiment. Get married, go have sex with another woman, preferrably a virgin, and then tell your wife. I'll just say this... There are lots and lots of ways to "jeopardise your health".

[felicissimus]

*Sigh*
Apart from the flawed definition there are a couple of things wrong with this.
So divorced women are not allowed to have sex anymore? What about widows?
Oh, and just for your information, women can also be adulterers (sp?). Only, they tend to be so with men.

The definition is correct ."Adultery " is sex or erotic activities in which one of the participants is married /divorced .
The definition appears first time in "Due Leges Iuliae de Adulterium"-"Two laws of Julius(Caesar) against the adultery " recorded in the anals of the Senate in Rome .Supposedly the understanding of this existed even before that .
Then you have a definition in the Orthodox(+Catholic ? ) Cathehism:

"Fornication is any form of sexual satisfaction between persons that have never been engaged in marriage with somebody no matter of what they did(just kissing,oral or full).
Adultery or adulterium is experiencing sexual satisfaction with a person of the two sexes that has already been engaged in marriage or one that is divorced because he has had husband/wife ."

You don't have any secular definitions you know because for the atheism no such things exist .So it's a question of language culture .

[Thanatos]

No. I find that despicable. Sex is for your spouse, no other. Free love has no meaning.

[Shazbot]

Most of you already know this I hope, but you can get STDs (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) by "adultering" non-virgin women.

I mean no offence to any of you, but I just want you to know that it could jepardise your health...

Can't you get STDs from anyone potentionally?