sexual desire

**harm** · April 04, 2007, 03:39 AM

Seriously, when I'm doing a chick...I sort of want to kill her. Growing up I thought sex was going to be more "romantic" like movies project but it's not so. I like to dominate her. All men feel this way. right?

Maybe from a 3rd person view sex between 2 people in love looks beautiful and from a womens, romantic. But from my point of view, and I'm guessing most men, they want to just simply **** the hell out of her.

**vizi** · April 04, 2007, 03:43 AM

Interesting. And no that is not the case. Some men are submissive.

Everyone is different.

**Irishman** · April 04, 2007, 02:33 PM

When you find a girl that you connect to on more than a phisical level, sex is very romantic.

Sex for the purpose of pleasure and not a symbol of affection is always going to feel like just sex.

It seems to me that your very view of sex is what is causing you to lack the emotions in it.

**Skyler** · April 04, 2007, 07:23 PM

Originally Posted by harm

Seriously, when I'm doing a chick...I sort of want to kill her. Growing up I thought sex was going to be more "romantic" like movies project but it's not so. I like to dominate her. All men feel this way. right?

Maybe from a 3rd person view sex between 2 people in love looks beautiful and from a womens, romantic. But from my point of view, and I'm guessing most men, they want to just simply **** the hell out of her.

A bitter view of relationships and sex, if I may ask have you ever had sex with a woman you really, really had strong emotions with or cared for? I.e a woman you had a serious relationship with and considerd to be you equel.

**Lord Rahl** · April 04, 2007, 07:25 PM

Originally Posted by harm

Seriously, when I'm doing a chick...I sort of want to kill her. Growing up I thought sex was going to be more "romantic" like movies project but it's not so. I like to dominate her. All men feel this way. right?

Maybe from a 3rd person view sex between 2 people in love looks beautiful and from a womens, romantic. But from my point of view, and I'm guessing most men, they want to just simply **** the hell out of her.

Maybe the chicks you pick make you feel that way?

**RZZZA** · April 04, 2007, 07:30 PM

Try choking her a little next time, or pulling her hair.

Everyone likes that.

**Skyler** · April 04, 2007, 07:44 PM

Originally Posted by RZZZA

Try choking her a little next time, or pulling her hair.

Everyone likes that.

I know I would.

**imthefrgt10** · April 04, 2007, 07:53 PM

hell, everyone just wants some... who cares if its rough or not!! haha

**RZZZA** · April 04, 2007, 07:55 PM

True, but its a well documented medical fact that breathing affects sexual pleasure. If you hold your breath at the correct time you enhance sexual pleasure...Its aggresive/dominant Y'know, I think most people like it. Just not everyone is aggresive enough to pull it off, you have to sell it.

**Idwayreth** · April 04, 2007, 08:08 PM

i was into this one chic a couple of years ago solely because she was hot as hell and when we did it, i just wanted to screw her brains out and just kinda use her to get my sexual frustrations out.

i'm with a girl right now that i have had really strong feelings for(which is very rare, only 2nd time i've felt this in my 26years) since the first time i laid eyes on her and to be honest, i dont get that urge at all with her. It's something completely different, because i truly care about this person right now beyond mere lust.

**~~sabaku_no_gaara~~** · April 04, 2007, 08:15 PM

I usually prefer to eat chickens instead of having sex with them. especially the chicken joint at the oude markt in leuven has verry tasty chicken

**MaximiIian** · April 04, 2007, 08:43 PM

Originally Posted by harm

Seriously, when I'm doing a chick...I sort of want to kill her. Growing up I thought sex was going to be more "romantic" like movies project but it's not so. I like to dominate her. All men feel this way. right?

Step 1: Find a chick who you connect with beyond merely a physical attraction.

Step 2: Go out with her, get her to connect with you on that same level.

Step 3: Get her to trust you enough to have sex with you. When doing so, don't do sadistic **** unless she's into that. Either way, hopefully you have completed steps 1-2 so you don't have to do that sort of thing.

Step 4: Listen to emotional music while having sex in order to emphasize and heighten the emotional sense of it all rather than emphasizing the physical "it's just sex" part of it. Beethoven is recommended, especially Symphony No.9, 4th Movement.

Originally Posted by Idwayreth

i'm with a girl right now that i have had really strong feelings for since the first time i laid eyes on her and to be honest, i dont get that urge at all with her. It's something completely different, because i truly care about this person right now beyond mere lust.

I heard an anecdote once that went along the lines of:
"How you can tell that you're in love with a woman is that, rather than constantly thinking about what you'll do to her during sex, you'll think about what you two will do when not having sex."
Or something like that.