Why is sex a taboo still?
Today,the society is growing but many people possess thoughts which are still awkward and weird,especially regarding sex.The ancient talk of the birds and the bees, the talk of sex ed in Middle School, the constant hiding of sexual intercourse and being afraid of it,all such proceedings are true in our society as if we are too immature to handle our bodies with a rational approach.Why in our society do they make sex sound so horrible, so nasty, that everyone thinks it's bad? Whether it be sexual intercourse, oral or even just :wub:, society looks upon these things as immoral, degrading and just plain wrong. To assume that all these are wrong is one thing, but without knowing the actual facts how can one be so sure. Everything is told on a one-sided story.
The first aspect comes ':wub:'. Whether you want to admit it or not...everyone has done it or will do it in their life time. It's just human nature.This is the form of sexual behavior that most of us learn first and instinctively.That feeling of being horny is just something that you can't cure or hide....when you feel horny you just have to do something about it. Of course, it is a hidden thing because people just do not want others thinking or knowing that they do this. This probably has to do with that fact that is considered a sin by most if not all religions and is looked on by society as a bit sad.But why is it so?This is just called as being too childish in this ever-progressive world IMO.Gradually society is accepting it, but it is something that most if not all people will hide from each other, even though it is something that everyone does.In many religions around the world,it's considered as a sin,leave alone sexual intercourse.I won't name the religions but it's something that we should consider as a very important part of our life and there's nothing to be afraid of in this.But it's a sad thing that some narrow-minded people feel it causes damage to eyes,lungs,etc.But it's been proved false by the doctors.Instead they regard it as something which must be practiced in everyday life and something one shouldn't scared of ever in life while committing to it.
In all fairness according to doctors, :wub: is the safest and most common form of sex. back in the 1960's it was frowned upon and considered immature and undesirable, but now doctor's encourage it as much as brushing your teeth 3 times a day.
As said, :wub: is not something wrong or something anyone should be ashamed of. It's healthly for everyone and should not be something that one should be afraid of. Of course this is not saying that you should go out and tell everyone and anyone you know that you :wub:, but in fact telling you that it's nothing you should fear or be ashamed of. :wub: needs to be seen and viewed as an activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable, normal and safe.
Now,the next thing is sex. Sex has been through and through battered, torn broken and in all matter of words looked as the most degrading and horrible thing next to doing drugs and murdering people in society.Well,that's what many people from Middle east and Southeast Asia think about.But it's extremely an insensitive way to react towards what God has created for us.And why do some of us forget that we are born naked and that's itself the best way to tell that sex is an important part of our lives.I just have a feeling of pity for the people who adopt an irrational behavior towards it.Sex with someone is something to be assertive about and not something to hold negative feelings for.God has indeed given a wonderful gift to man in the form of sex and we should make full use of it.Now I'm not saying it is best to have sex with everyone you see, but I am saying that it's not at all a horrible thing in the world. Society tries to place that sex is wrong and you should only be having it when trying to have kids and this is it.Here,the word 'society' is directed towards the people who have eerie feelings about it.So basically, no sex until marriage and all that. What they should be doing is teaching more people and younger adults to use protection. Teach them that with the guy using a condom and the girl using birth control there is a 99.999999999999(infinity 9)% probability of nothing happening(chances of not getting conceived), whether it be the chance of pregnancy or the exchange of a sexually transmitted disease. If buying condoms and using birth control wasn't frowned upon so much by our society then more people would use them. We shouldn't be scared to have sex all the time and that's what society wants us to be, scared to have or to even think about sex. This is just plain stupid. They are telling us that to have that impulse, to be horny is wrong and shouldn't be done. If sex were more open, more people would accept it. More people would know what to do instead of being afraid of it and doing what they think they can do.
Now there are still gonna be problems with sex whether or not sex was open or still frowned upon, but if sex were more open I guarantee there would be less problems then there are now. Sex can be just as safe and common as :wub: and should be if people knew what they were doing and doing what they are supposed to do. If society would realize that, then sex wouldn't be so much of an issue.
Last thing to talk about is "sex buddies". Most people think this is just wrong and degrading to the couple, but of course society deems it this way. My opinion is this, as long as you are not in a relationship, a "sex buddy" is the same thing as :wub:, noting the fact that both parties are using protection. If both people are horny and want sex then, I would say go for it, there is nothing wrong at all. They are just basically :wub: anyways...just with a little help. Why this is frowned upon I will never know. As long as neither party is in a relationship and both using protection it's as harmless as simply :wub:.
Now if one or both parties are currently in relationships, it is indeed cheating and is wrong in all matters whether or not they don't mean anything by it or not. Even though most guys will :wub: in relationships whether they are having lots of sex with their partner or not, this is still not the way to go.
In conclusion, sex or :wub: is not something to be considered wrong, evil or nasty and it should not be something to be feared or to be afraid of. It's human nature to do both things and as long as people are careful and do what they are suppose to do, there should be no problem whatsoever. But, not all people will do what they are supposed to do, if that were true, then this world would be a perfect place.And I wish someday the people realize that their propagation and claim about being civilized has no association with sex.If it were the fact then perhaps the Gods should be considered as savage.But certainly 'no',we must rise now,awaken ourselves and be aware of the fact that sex is a part of our life as is breathing each and everyday we live on the face of earth.
What do you people think about it?
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Originally Posted by Gil
