1: I was a bit too polemic when I criticised the past 60 years of civil rights movements. In principle the idea that everyone should be able to find their place in society and be a respected member of it is something I wholeheartedly endorse. But the reality is that this is not what we have ended up with, and not even the goal that was chased, though it took me 32 years of my life to realise this. We are in a place where the fulfillment of the individual surpasses any consideration for even the most fundamental needs of society - and yes that clearly includes making enough children to ensure the survival of the group, which should be a no-brainer.
The only reason why this is not a critical point is because there are RIGHT NOW way too many of us on this planet. So for the time being the need for full population replenishment is suspended. But this is a luxury or as I see it a burden we ought to carry, not a human right. Humans are animals and as such are bound by the same rules. One of those is "bear children or die out". And men also bear responsibility here, there are plenty of anti-natalists among them, and too many who shirk their responsibilities to their family out of selfish comfort. The need for kids is just a fundamental fact of life, it's not societal oppression.
2: In the same vein I respect and tolerate LGBT people, as they are quite able to contribute to society in their own way. There is no point in forcing the outliers to be like the norm. It's unnecessary and counterproductive, therefore unreasonable cruelty. But clearly this doesn't mean being gay works for everyone, we'd die out in one generation. Tolerating and respecting the outliers and making them the norm are two different hings.
I am not homophobic or transphobic, but I do oppose QIA+ ideology at every step. Those are different pairs of shoes, even if the previously nonexistent QIA+ folk have successfully usurped the LGBT movement in recent years.
Again... I am talking as an Aspie here. I am an outlier myself, and I have the same experience with suicidal ideation, discrimination and bullying at various stages of my life. But I understand it's up to me to prove my worth to society, as it is with anybody.
3: I did paraphrase Ernst Udet, but he was a soldier, general and man of his time. As a human far without faults, he still exemplified some of the best soldatic virtues and is respected for it across nations, for the handful who know about him. I also quote Churchill sometimes and respect the man, following the same basic logic - of course nowadays that also makes me a white supremacist, I suppose. Fight with the Nazis or fight against them, you are still one step away from being literally HItler. It's getting tiring.
To make it clear: the war ended the right way, it's good that Nazi Germany was defeated because they were absolutely abominable. I am anti-Nazi. Udet however was not involved in the eradication of the civilian population in the East and he was already dead by his own hand before the holocaust even began - as a logistical air force general he would've had no hand in it anyway. So I feel quite comfortable quoting him. He was a misguided man on the wrong side of history, but not evil. The world is not that simple.