Russia is behaving like it is led by an oligarch at the head of a oligarchic system of government. It is behaving as if it is entirely subservient to an experienced and entirely empathy-free dictator. But this situation was neither inevitable, nor is it necessarily indefinite. Russia in the 1990s prior to Putin, and before Yeltsin lost it, started to behave like a normal country - At least regarding international relations. They were invited to be (and still are) a part of NATO's Partnership for Peace programme, the original soft touch pathway for NATO membership for former Soviet countries. They could have easily been a part of NATO by now, and thoroughly integrated into Europe. Remember, in the 90s, Russia even gave the US virtually full access to it's nuclear weapons programme to help secure it. After 20 years of Putin it is really hard to imagine that level of trust. But Yeltsin couldn't master the oligarchs, went weird, attacked Chechnya, and was replaced their number 1 pick. But Putin won't be around forever, and he will be difficult to replace.
Ironically, NATO membership might also have been great for Russia's hegemonic ambitions. It hasn't exactly stymied Turkey's adventurism in Iraq, Syria, Libya or Azerbaijan. It certainly didn't hold the US back from unilaterally invading Iraq.