NATO has already been bordering with Russia for a while now, yet there are no US nuclear installations in any post Soviet NATO Countries. Based on this, the assumption that NATO would simply drop this very smart policy and start filling Ukraine with nukes is preposterous.
Furthermore, as you yourself correctly mentioned, these weapons are next gen compared to to the early 60ies. But this actually means they don't really need to be planted on Russia's doorstep to do their thing, which is the opposite of your argument.
And again, even before Russia invaded it was quite obvious Ukraine would never get a clear path to NATO membership, so this whole issue is mooth from the start.
France once left NATO and I don't remember NATO tanks occupying Paris.
I know a thing or two about the Mafia. My island invented it after all. I can assure you shop owners don't get in queues to get protection, like 2/3 of Eastern Europe did a second after the Wall fell.
Of course, Serbia was bombed for not wanting to join NATO, not because they were mass murdering folks in Kosovo. I don't recall any NATO tanks in Belgrade either, come to think about it.
Dude, let's be realistic here. The US haven't really cared that much about Russia since 1991(and that was a mistake). Most western NATO was even reluctant to this Eastern shift as no one really wants to start a nuclear conflict over Latvia. Eastern Europe was the one scared of their big brother Russia, not the US.
And by the way, do you truly believe the US needed Estonia to "gain a strategic advantage over Russia"? Really? In what parallel universe?
This NATO mafia of yours doesn't really seem up to the task. Besides the fact that those 2 countries are now very much pro NATO since the invasion started(I wonder why), this last comment of yours does seem to disprove your earlier comment about "bad things happening for not joining NATO."