Originally Posted by
Dismounted Feudal Knight
While this is certainly a fairly easy way to play, it is not the way you have to. You can play in a way that is more chivalrous, making use of elite tactics and 'they hit first' to justify actions and minimize casualties while not grinding away at a population's expense. But this is of course slower and more tricky, not to mention inefficient. This is also not to say one should put taxes at minimum or offer absolute resource liberty; sometimes a compromise (say 'normal' tax rate) will keep the nation in better shape while still being better to live in paired with neighbors, for longer. Perhaps long enough to wait for the other nation-state to make the first move. I'm playing with morality here, but I digress.