Originally Posted by
Ygraine
1. Never reload/save scum, no matter what happens.
2. Do not become friends with everyone, pick a few factions and stick to them (unless they betray you). "A friend to all is a friend to none".
3. Do not run around the borders of the map waiting for time to pass in a battle to win by default. Shame on you if you do.
4. Always take walled cities manually, it's a lot more difficult and losses will be higher even if auto says you'll only lose 1%.
5. If you constantly use fortification stance against the AI, shame on you. Save it for when you're severely outnumbered.
6. Do not go on an exploration spree to discover tons of factions, keep it fairly local (this way you also avoid factions on the opposite side of the map declaring war. The AI does not take distance to you into consideration declaring war, which is immersion-breaking).
That's how I play!