Veteraan,
Yes, I do try to hold myself to a higher standard. On the forum, this 'higher standard" is not what the Curia wants. I actually ran on a "platform" of a higher standard
here, and receive the lowest point total I received in an election.
If you have doubt on the facetious nature of my standard (this isn't the first time you have had trouble discerning it) and by an Admin's own admittance such statements would not warrant a warning, then why would you vote to uphold a Censure? I personally, do nt think it is just to hold me to a "higher Standard" to everyone else simply because I stated I would like to hold myself to it.
Elfdude,
I know I voted to uphold your referral and I know you were upset by that. I would like to assure you I do not mean any offense nor was it personal. I apologize if you took my statements personal. I can still recall when you were proposed for the Phalera. I can recall wholeheartedly supporting it as well. Your posts at the time were some of the enjoyable posts I have read. I still have tremendous respect for even when you were appealing. Perhaps that is why I came across so strongly.
I like to say, I have never fake ignorance. ironically, it was genuine ignorance that led to the exchange that led to the referral. It wasn't fake at all. I always try to seek an understanding and to acquire knowledge. Message boards are notorious for misunderstandings. The phrase in question would not be questioned at all if spoken. The intent would be more than obvious. I have always try to resolve misunderstandings. As for crying foul, sure I share my feelings. I see nothing wrong with telling anyone that something they said or did was hurtful. It is often mistaken for a counter attack. it isn't.
It's, hey you hurt me, then you mean to?
Yes, I do talk directly. I am not a creative writer. What I wrote was supposed to drive home a point about all citizens having a right to speak on all matter concerning the site. It was not an attack on anyone.
Yes, I am always looking at how I communicate my ideas. When someone takes it the wrong way, I often clarify, but as you know, they argue with the clarification. When this happens, it is not enjoyable for anyone. having a difference of opinion is not accuse to make life unpleasant.