Too many Family Members with Bactria

[The Despondent Mind]

So as Bactria I conquered many regions where I have to have a client ruler, however I think mtw2 just doesn't register them, so I keep getting more and more default FB. At this point I am having so much of them that I do not know what to do with them but use them as cavalry, and although their upkeep is 30, they are noticeable burden on my economy.

Can I stop this somehow?

P.S. For some reason only one song is playing when I am on the campaign map, and I think its a battle song.

[BailianSteel]

This one got me when I was playing as Bactria. You need to have the Arche Seleukeia acknowledge your independence before you can build Factional Governments instead of Allied Governments outside of Bactria. The process is detailed in the player guide in the EBII directory. It's something to the tune of Refuse tribute until war happens, Win a few battles (no Auto-resolving,) conquer a few provinces from Arche Seleukeia, and then you should be able to remedy this situation.