Originally Posted by
Kravixon01
If you keep the young men out in the field for ten years they get the trait "true roman", which gives them better chances at winning elections. I usually keep new FMs in Rome for education until they turn 20 and then move them out for military service. FMs that get the true roman trait will then be staying in the field past the time that they're eligible for queastor, but it's sometimes worth it. FMs from a patrician background are also more likely to get elected to high offices.
Eventually you'll have more family members than you know what to do with. That alone will solve a lot of your problems, but it also allows you to be a lot pickier about who you bother grooming for high office.