
Originally Posted by
Hagakure
Lord Naoshige said, "An ancestor's good or evil can be determined by the conduct of his desecendants." A descendant should act in a way that will manifest the good in his ancestor and not the bad. This is filial piety."
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When Nakano Shogen commited seppuku, the members of his group gathered at Oki Hyobu's place and said various bad things about him. Hyobu said, "One does not speak bad things about a person after his death. And since a person who has recieved some censure is to be pitied. It is the obligation of a Samurai to speak something good of him, no matter how little. There is no doubt that in twenty years, Shogen will have the reputation of a faithful retainer."
These truly were the words of a seasoned man.