I see what you mean. I just hate it when, say for example, your King has no heirs and is no spring chicken; you want him to have a son to continue the family line, however, when he dies the heir(dom?) will pass to some bloody random adopted guy. And all this because the engine thought you had too many characters when in fact half of them are 60 year old men! Also you end up sending unwanted heirs on suicide missions to clear them off the family tree so someone more worthy can take the crown! (I do always feel bad doing this

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(again this experience comes from playing vanilla and Stainless Steel so DoTS may be better)
Maybe this could be remedied by using an heir ancillary (like in a particular submod for SS). I havn't used it though and I don't know if it evens works.
Lets hope you guys can sort it (or better yet, that its not a problem)!
