Re: Multi User Netbeans
I don't think so. Your best bet is either to deal with no compilers or to use built-in svn or other version control software (CVS, git are two other options) to keep your two copies updated. I did a quick search online and eclipse seems to allow what your after if you install the docshare and saros plugins. Another possibility is teamviewer which allows for one user to share their desktop and where both users can edit the same document.
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