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    Most regretfully and unfortunately, tonight I believe I've discovered evidence that my father has most likely been comitting adultery against my mother. As difficult and potentially explosive a situation as this may be, I am by all means going to march forward with the correct route of action: I'm going to confront him tonight, give him a chance to explain his actions (I realize I'm crossing a river on leaky assumptions, but the lumber fits so perfectly together the crossing only seems inevitable), and then give him the choice of explaining it to my mother himself or doing it myself.

    My mother is a very emotional person who suffers from an anxiety disorder. I am 17 and living with my parents until I head off to college this fall; I've two siblings, but one is currently in college and another has graduated and moved to California. Needless to say, my decision could see my family entering a very unstable period of time in which I would not of course be able to be involved in TWC.

    My mother is working at the hospital on a night shift right now and my father is currently away. So, I'm just going to be passing time here at TWC replying and what not while I wait for him to return.

    If I'm absent for awhile, this is the cause, and I'll return and update you later. It's personal, but I'm posting it to help compose myself. With all due hope, if my thought is wrong, then I'll update you all.

    Sorry if this is typed poorly. Needless to say, I'm quite sad and disappointed.
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    I'm sorry about your parents. I hope things will work out for y'all. Good luck with your confrontation with your dad. Hopefully your dad hasn't done anything wrong. Maybe your looking into something that isn't anything at all????

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    Good luck with the confrontation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hub'ite
    I'm sorry about your parents. I hope things will work out for y'all. Good luck with your confrontation with your dad. Hopefully your dad hasn't done anything wrong. Maybe your looking into something that isn't anything at all????
    Thanks. He recently attended Daytona Bike Week as he does every year. I found on his computer several searches for escort services and such in the Daytona area. He also signed up and registered for Adult Friend Finder. The only other possibility is it was some 'gift' for one of the people he was going with, but this seems unlikely.
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    Sorry about your parents, and good luck!

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    Good luck with the confrontation, and please dont loose your temper be smooth and strong.
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    Krusoth: Are you completely sure? Don't confront him unless you are 99.9% sure, else you can ruin their marriage without cause...
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    Good luck to you. I hope your assumtion is wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Farnan
    Krusoth: Are you completely sure? Don't confront him unless you are 99.9% sure, else you can ruin their marriage without cause...
    I'm going to simply ask him what the escort services for Daytona were. It seems so difficult to be otherwise Farnan, as much as I desire it to be.
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    Ahlright, but make sure you do it subtly...

    Maybe, have the escort service information up on the computer when he comes on and see his reaction. If he's angry or nervous, then confront him. Otherwise, give him the benefit of the doubt.
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    No. Just be direct about it.

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    Good luck Krusoth. It does seem a little suspicious, but dont go overboard. Approach him in a respectful manner. Tell him your concerned for their marriage and ask him why he was looking for escort services. Dont go on the accusation trip - getting offensive will only make him clam up and get defensive. And try not to threaten him unless its a last resort.
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    dude no words here!!good luck with the comfrotation!!
    so sad to see these things happen!
    anyway it is time to stand up as a man,even in that way
    again good luck!!

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    Thanks for the comfort and suggestions all.

    I'm going to wait for morning tomorrow (after thinking about how undesirable it could be to sleep in the same house after the confrontation and other such problems). I'm just going to take some Tylenol Simply Sleep and hopefully pass out in 30 minutes or so. I'm glad I went and exercised alot today. Sleep is going to be difficult.
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    One more piece of advice...

    Pray about it.
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    Glad to see you have balls. Even if you were wrong at least you were looking out for your family, which is more then half of the people I know can say.

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    you better be prepared for anything brother, keep your head up high and don't let yourself become too emotional during the said confrontation. hope you're wrong. but if not. good luck to you and sorry.
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    Krusoth_the_Plague, you are in an invidious situation. I hope everything works out well. There are plenty of people here who clearly care. Good luck.

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    Go my man! Be strong. Pray for it, all of TWC is with you.

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    And we should give you a prize, you might be the only one who said this on a forum.
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    Good luck but I'm just gonna say that remember that is not such a big deal. He didn't kill anyone. He can be having sex with other people, and still love your mom. Remember that.
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