Very well said. When JWs or Mormons come to my door knocking I honestly do get cranky and feel like telling them to piss off. My home is my castle, my comfort zone, and I don't like uninvited people breaking the boundaries of my sanctuary without invitation. This method of proselytizing, plus Bible bashing or yelling from a soap-box (because honestly, yelling in public does make a person look like a complete lunatic) probably turns people away more than drawing them into the fold.
When I have shared my beliefs in my life, it has never come from directly proclaiming and forcing my views on others. It has come from day to day getting to know people, and them getting to know me. And sometimes people ask me for help and advice - that's when I tell them what gives me my inner strength. That's how I plant the seed, by being a person people would come to talk with, and through giving my own testimony when I've been asked.
As a manager with some teenage kids on my staff, I think I've been able to influence a few of them for the better.....especially a couple of the cool/rebellious/smartarse types. Just the other day I took the time to ride my new motorcycle around to the house of one of these kids (who quit the job recently to sit on his bum at home and get looked after by mummy) and show him. You should have seen his eyes light up. ''That's

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sick!'' he said. I told him to get a job, stop smoking pot, getting drunk and spending his money on MacDonalds, buy himself a bike, and get a life! Doesn't sound like a Christian thing to say really, but it is - it's about hard work, diligence, persistence, I showed him I cared by going around there etc
I've waffled on enough. There are ways and means to spread the Word without turning people off.