High Elves Campaign full of CTD's

So empire, orc and silvania factions go quite well for me, even dwarfs, but with high elves its just terrible. I get CTD's just by scrolling trough the building browser, and now I cant even load a game to the campaign map.

I already found the HE a bit less stable than the other factions in 1.2-1.3 and got stuck at turn 60 once, but now already in turn 3.

Maybe someone has suggestions. I love that HE campaign...

That's strange. I'm playing HE campaign too. I'm on about 75 turn and haven't got too many CTD. Some random yes, but not types of CTD You described. As I'm reading topics about CTD I think that it's individual case, cause some people have problems with one thing and another with different.
My only serious bug is CTD when i'm right clicking on Dark Elves Assassin's Tower.

I have not tried them yet but I believe 1.4.1 is NOT stable for everyone. For example my Sylvania campaign crashes very often.