Of course I am NOT kidding, I have all the total war games bar warhammer and shogan2, and I'd have to say that ETW is the best of them all by far!
now with that said all total war games are pretty crappy out of the box ie: vanilla, but ETW as a core to build on is brilliant and for me the concept of having 3 completely different theatres of war and the time period is absolutely fantastic
If you get tired of boring old Europe you can concentrate on the America's or if you are bored with the America's and Europe you can concentrate on the India's etc etc, the vastness of mods available is superb But quite frankly who on Gods green earth would play any Total War game without mods out of the box, they get pretty boring fast and I think CA knows this which is why they allow it to be modded because you need the base game if you want to play any of the amazing mods available, also if you look at the code within ETW there is alot that they left out it, looks as though it was going to be even bigger and better than the end result but I guess Sega wanted it out faster than CA expected which is a shame (however I digress)
I use Darthmod, Minor Faction Revenge, Polish Units 2, ROARv2, French Indian Wars, Huron Warparty, NAP effects and couple of others of my own all of which I've altered to work with one another and I just love it
So to reiterate Yes ETW is the best Total War game by along streak in my opinion and experience