Stainless Steel might be the best choice - if you can't handle a 3 letter acronym then perhaps the depth of Deus Lo Vult will be too much
Joking aside I doubt there is anyone in the TW center community that has any problems differentiating between these 2 mods, they are obviously very different.
SS is like a polished and expanded vanilla which anyone who's played it would know. Seriously, don't bother with vanilla - SS is much more enjoyable and challenging, especially if you use the RRRC minimod.
DLV is like the game vanilla should have been and more, it's deeper, more complicated and harder than any other mod I know of. It's audience is much smaller and probably more hardcore than SS, since depth = effort and many people don't have the time to spare, the patience or the intelligence to find DLV as awesome as it's fans do.
So if you liked vanilla then you'll love SS.
But if you want it harder, deeper and slower then come give DLV a shot
As for there being any animosity between DLV and SS... nope there is none. SS is the most popular mod and differentiating DLV from it is easy because for the most part we don't use the same work they do. DLV has a unique flavor that won't be compromised by copying stuff from another popular mod... unless it's really important
