I respect an Asian(East-Asian) who sticks to his/her name even after coming to America/some other non east-Asian country.
don't ever change ur real name for the sake of others. by doing so you lose your identity. if they value your friendship; then let them learn your names as you learned to pronounce theirs
and this comment coming from a Texan republican (ok..i hate to generalize but i generally tend to see most comments like this coming from republicans

) is simply absurd. these people have no idea what multiculturalism and/or what names mean to others. what would "their" reaction be if they were "suggested" to change their names to..err example.... "Akasuki"