Whats With Family Tree?

[Napoleon1853]

Im on turn 28 and so far ...Like brides arnt presented until my family members are in their late 30s early 40s
No family members have had any kids yet..and by now they are getting to the age where they wont have any
even my 18 year old princess who I married to a 22 year old Danish Family member hasnt had any kids...what gives?..within 10 or so turns I wont have a family tree becuz my guys will be so old they wont be having kids at all!..if they ever even will

[Napoleon1853]

Also on that note....iv won many battles...even destroyed a nation(scotland) but got no rankings for it..i thought there was rankings for Family Members and stuff?..and even if there wasnt...why am I not getting any command points or anything like that for winning battles...and what about the Vanquisher trait thing? I destroyed a faction with my Faction Leader leading the assault, and no Vanquisher trait was acquired

O and also...Iv never been notified when a princess has come of age or anything like that..like the wiki says would happen..
I missed out on a 14 year old French Princess with full charm except for 1 heart...and fertile trait..i could have actually got some good kids then