What do girls look for in guys?

[Elrond]

I am asking this because I don't have any or almost none of the things that I think girls want in guys. I am hoping to be proved wrong or at least hoping that I can gain some of the attributes.

My guess is that they want the following:


1) Strength - I am not that strong and progress at the gym is somewhat limited by my build and age (18).

2) Intelligence - I am intelligent but so are most of the guys I know.

3) Funny / Witty - Theres no way I am either.

4) Popular - I am definitely not

5) Normal - I am proud and happy of being different


Is this stuff rubbish or have I missed stuff out?

This thread IS NOT to ask for advice on how to speak to girls etc - it is to ask more experienced guys what girls look for.

[dwringer]

1) Money

2) See No. 1

3) Power. See also No. 1.

[<purplepenguin>]

cant believe you forgot looks. A girl is wanna date a guy who looks awsome.
K who repped me

[the_mango55]

1) Money

2) See No. 1

3) Power. See also No. 1.

Ha, I was going to post that.

[Carach]

1) Money

2) See No. 1

3) Power. See also No. 1.

also at the age being talked about, throw in a car.

[avesta]

1) Money

2) See No. 1

3) Power. See also No. 1.

Well said man.

[Miraj]

Big Penis.

Big Penis.

^^ What he said.

[Mighty Sultan]

Big Penis.



^^ What he said.

if it's just this what the girls want i have no problem

[man]

Big Penis.



^^ What he said.

guilty

[<purplepenguin>]

yeah miraj summed it up
girls are sick twisted creatures

[gambit]

yeah miraj summed it up
girls are sick twisted creatures

They truly are.

Now if you'll excuse me, I have some tentacle hentai waiting on another tab.

[Retribution]

Now if you'll excuse me, I have some tentacle hentai waiting on another tab.

Priceless.

[Aziel]

They truly are.

Now if you'll excuse me, I have some tentacle hentai waiting on another tab.

Just for the reference, tentacle hentai IS sick, by all means.

[dwringer]

LOL OP had all kinds of nice things that men strive to be, but every one of us has shot those down

[Miraj]

Asking what girls want in guys is sexist. Women are considerably more mental and a lot less simpler in their 'needs' than men.

Irregardless of "what women want" (sigh, so cliche) what's important is that you know what you want. Just behave like a determined little aggressive sperm and pray to whatever false god you pray to that you pick up a decent women along the way.

[Shaun]

what's important is that you know what you want.

Miraj nailed it. You've got to know what you want in a girl. That is all. Simple as that. And you've got to keep sifting through them until you find one that has what you want.

[Gungalley]

Miraj nailed it. You've got to know what you want in a girl. That is all. Simple as that. And you've got to keep sifting through them until you find one that has what you want.

And after that? After you met the one whom you fall in love at first sight?

[Anachronist]

Play the guitar, girls always seem to fall for that.

[Dictatorfish]

Being a guy, I obviously can't tell you for sure, but here's a list of things that women at least tell me they're looking for. And being a guy, I have no idea what the order of preference is so here's this in (probably) random order:

• Intelligent
• Good sense of humour
• Well groomed/nice hair/whatever
• Good taste in clothing/dress sense
• Ability to take care of the girl
• Honest
• Confident
• Proud but not arrogant
• Someone who knows what they want in life
• Sharing something in common

Personally, I say other than the grooming and dress sense part, the above is a load of "nice guy" characteristics. Find me a girl who says she prefers short guys over tall and I'll find you a guy who like obese women over the young and fit (I'm not saying they don't exist, I'm saying they're incredibly rare).

*is cursed with short stature*

[The Mongol]

Depends on the girl.


On the other hand, Miraj is spot on.