there is an easy answer-- but the arabs simply arent willing to negotiate because they are both uneducated and desperate.
the jews would be exterminated if they allowed the arabs to rule, they would be wiped out more completely than any german ever managed, and I think thats the key difference.
the jews show over and over and over again, supreme restraint, supreme humanity, and absolute mercy, and they are rewarded with violence from the arabs; and they must eventually whip the disobedient dog, because it is so maddened by its faith and its self induced suffering that it can barely think any more like a human being.
the jews are forced like every other time , like the first war to make the dog yeild just like in a pack, since they refuse to kill the mad creature( out of supreme goodness and humanity) (both dogs mind you in the example, when two dogs fight one must yeild or die, this conflict is like this, except that the jew is like the healthy bigger dog, who constantly beats the

out of the insane mangy dog-- but never kills him because he loves the crazy sonofa

)
if the arabs had the control the jews have now ; the jews would be in stacks , dessicated corpses an offering to the dark god of ignorance, miles and miles and miles.