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  1. Re: I'm moving on with my life...

    Well I'm not wearing eye-liner and my hair is still natural! :laughter:

    I can understand Adnan's concerns and appreciate his opinion. But if anything I was surpressing who I am more before than...
  2. Re: I'm moving on with my life...

    Don't turn Gothic, they say. :laughter:

    I helped invent Gothic back when it was cool and not trendy!!!!! :disgust:

    (actually, I was more new wave/industrial/goth, but what's semantics...
  3. Re: I'm moving on with my life...

    Actually we are going to review that plan every year. She's leaning towards switching yearly, I just think for stability they would be better off doing it every couple/three years. We have a...
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    I'm moving on with my life...

    I think it's time to turn a new page in this book. While it will be hard to actually 'move on with my life' while Paige is still here in Montana and living under the same roof as me, I do think...
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    Re: Sig Service/Avatar Service/Userbar Service

    Thanks again, Eclipse! :thumbsup2


    Hmmm, new avatar? I'm really not feeling very teddy bear like right now. :doh:
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    Re: Sig Service/Avatar Service/Userbar Service

    Wow, I really dig that! But could you make it so the text can be a little more easily read? Oh, and shrink it down to maybe 400x150ish....

    TYVM!
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    Re: Say Cheese !!!!

    I like the shorter hair, rez.
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    Re: Sig Service/Avatar Service/Userbar Service

    Since my PC crashed I haven't been able to get Photoshop to load. I need a new cd drive and maybe one of those disc cleaners.

    Anyway, could one of you take a look at what you can come up with for...
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    Re: Say Cheese !!!!

    More camwhoring...


    http://img179.imageshack.us/img179/9283/0727071237xh3.jpg

    Needed a new myspace pic... :tongue:
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    See, that's the thing Captn. We're working completely as a team on this. We're even going to file with the same lawyer (basically, this is what we want, put it in writing.)

    There is no...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Doh. Double post. But hey, it's my own psychology thread and plus --I'm a moderator. So, bite me! :)


    Anyway, I'm really starting to sour on this idea. Sure, it helps Paige and I cope better...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    I want them to grow up to know each other, know their mother and know their father.

    Again, I know this is bizaar. I'm not even saying I'm for it (I have massive reservations about it.) We're...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    I really appreciate the concern and you looking out for me.

    Ok, Paige and I talked about my feelings and her not taking ownership of her share of the issues that fed our problems. I really do...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Some of the things she's done in the past two or three days since they returned from Virginia have opened my eyes. She wasn't making me happy.

    The annoying part about all this is her denial of...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    You know one thing we can tell them is that Mommy and Daddy do still love each other and care for each other greatly.

    We do. It's a love of two friends. Not husband and wife. But it's still...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Ok, I was affraid this was coming. I just completely fell apart and cried like a baby for about 20 minutes in the bathroom (Turner is taking a nap, Perry was in the livingroom watching TV...I don't...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    I grew up in the navy. We moved all over the world. We also spent summers split between Montana (dad's family) and North Carolina (mums family.) We were uprooting to different cultures and strange...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Actually, I think I did mention (it's hard to remember what you say where) that it was an online affair and what I discovered was her intentions to make it a physical affair while I'm watching the...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Yes, and yes.
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Wow. What a difference a theropy session and a day makes.

    We are still getting divorced. We walked out of the theropy session like someone had died. We couldn't look each other in the eye. We...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Yeah. We even slept in the same bed last night. We've been corgial. We hugged this morning. But let me share some notes I prepared for our counseling session. I'm the one who wants to reconcile...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    I just looked at the history for the browser. She was looking for apartments in Virginia this morning.
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    I'm such a softy. I picked them up at the airport last night and at first I tried the reserved politeness. As we were waiting for their bags in baggage claim I just couldn't take it anymore. I...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Oh, and get this. I forgot to mention (I think.) She ended our 15 year relationship, 7 year marriage with a 19mnth old and a 5 1/2 year old in AN EMAIL.

    I just thought about that. I know people...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    We are getting joint-custody (shared.) So if she stayed here in Montana I would have them just as much as she would. The problem comes in on the fact that even though it is 'joint-custody' they do...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    But there's nothing to fight unless I can show she's a druggy or abusive to the boys. That's just a fact of life under Montana law.
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    OMG, Gruffles has a glimmer of humour surfacing....


    I forgot to mention. When I was talking to my sister about how to split it up: A school year here, summer there, summer here, school year...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    That means so much to me to hear that. Thank you so much for sharing it with me.

    My sister was trying to encourage me and told me that I could call them every day, I could write them letters...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Montana is a 'no fault' divorce state. You can't file on the grounds of anything beyond 'irreconcilable differences.' Period.

    As for her trying to file in Virginia that won't happen.


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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    My old name was Lord Alameda (look at my profile.) We lived there for two years because we just had to get Perry out of San Francisco. We didn't leave Alameda until last year when we moved up here...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    I'm having strong second thoughts about moving to Virginia. I will have NOTHING and NOBODY. I'll be right there around her, her friends, her new boyfriend, her family and I will have nobody and...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Thanks guys. This out pouring of support and advice is overwhelmingly touching. I'm actually tearing up while I'm typing this because you have all touched my heart with your concern. I will never...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Hey Sib,

    She's turning me into a PART TIME FATHER by breaking our promise to eachother and by extension to our boys (for better or for worse until death do us part.) Why should she have...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    Siblez,

    I have forgiven her for the affair. I want to work things out. She is exibiting classic signs of someone trying to justify their own immoral behavior. She is saying I have been verbally...
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    Re: I'm getting divorced...

    She actually earns about the same as me.

    We are still on good terms. I just talked to her a couple hours ago and I told her I wish I could be angry with her and I wish I could hate her. But I...
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    I'm getting divorced...

    I can't believe it. My whole life is nothing more than a shattered hall of mirrors. It was an illusion.

    My wife (we've been together 15 years) had an affair. I still wanted to work it out to...
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    Re: Say Cheese !!!!

    I'll make a camwhore contribution...

    http://img75.imageshack.us/img75/1910/0720071227zz8.th.jpg
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    Re: Post your myspace

    Yea, after years of avoiding this stuff my sister and my (soon to be X) wife have caused me to play along. I set up a page a couple weeks ago...

    http://www.myspace.com/gruffles69
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    Re: Warhammer Online

    Threads merged. ~ Lord Gruffles
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    Re: Say Cheese !!!!

    Action figure? :laughter:

    Ok, better put on my game face!
    http://img393.imageshack.us/img393/9245/0719071125wm7.th.jpg
    Those dastardly villans! :shifty:


    Or better yet, my 'dark-side'...
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