FatmanComplex 7 years ago#9
Well, to maintain good relations, surprisingly you have to use diplomacy. Before simply invading a nation, because you really want their lands as your own, send a diplomat and off something you know they won't accept for the lands, but still somewhat decent. Then, next turn, offer them again, only this time, add in accept or we will attack.
Next turn, declare war. Next turn, attack. You've let them know you wanted war, gave them time to defend themselves, and your relations didn't drop like a stone, as long as they weren't major trading partners with anyone. If so, as long as you're a trading partner, and not blockading ports, you'll notice that other nations don't mind so much.
Expanding rapidly also accounts for nations distrust of you. Occasionally send them small gifts, take your time, attack slowly, and methodically, plan campaigns and give them plenty of time to develop. Inform your enemies an attack will becoming, give them a little time to prepare, and attack them with prior declaration of war, and your relations with other nations, and chances of GETTING a ceasefire will actually increase.