Bees were studied and their jobs and duties were likely known:
"Others, again, assert that these insects copulate, and that the drones are male and the bees female."
Aristotle, History of Animals, Book 5, 350 B.C
"For the food that insects go in quest of is of diverse kinds, and they do not all delight in the same flavours: for instance, the bee never settles on a withered or wilted flower, but on fresh and sweet ones"
"In the bee the fact of its being asleep is very obvious; for at night-time bees are at rest and cease to hum."
Aristotle, History of Animals, Book 4, 350 B.C.
What god gave Aristotle this knowledge? Observation and study, to definitely say that the source of your verse is divine is folly.
This is not even considering the Arabic feminine vs masculine headings for things in that verse, as you put it, is the bee actually female, or does it just "feel" feminine and you are just wishfully thinking? I find that to be far more likely as you are someone who
has to believe and are twisting an Arabic translation to suit your needs, as you have been proven to do.
Even if that is not the case, can you prove that the masculine form of that word even existed back then for there to be a distinction?