I fixed it!
So apparently the pip that should be displayed for negative cultural differences doesnt exist in NTW or ETW (I reinstalled etw on a hunch thinking it might be in the files, nope). However there are the 3 files you sent me and conquest_cultural_differences-unhappy is not the same thing because its "conquest" not just plain cultural differences. So as a test i took conquest_cultural_differences-unhappy and renamed it a couple different ways since i wasnt sure what the file the game was referencing was called.
Well after a couple tries i found the right name, culture-unhappy!
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Ironically Poland is the only region that has this pip but i still really wanted to fix it haha.