I always seem to get so pissed off at the ai and cheat to gain a town back whenever i loose one. But what im trying to do in my new game is instead of putting all my units in defending towns. Im keeping them only with 1-2 units in and keeping my main force moving around attacking things before it gets to my towns.
And if i loose a town then i just meh i'll retake it in a few turns. So what im saying is loosing a town is no big deal right?