Due to recent events I think it is a good idea to set precedents to secrue a safe future. The core idea behind this proposal is respect.
First and foremost the process begins with the Patroning process. My fellow patrons, it is imperitive that when finding a civate that this member be someone you are compatible with. Not someone who agrees with you who is the best president or what color is the greatest. By compatible I mean somoene whom you can bond with and mantian a healthy relationship with.
Second it is the patrons duty to nurture this relationship. You must do your best to keep your civate intrested in TWC and encourage them to post in the curia. They are not required, but it is the patrons duty to make sure they are given the proper introduction.
The civate and patron must mutally respect eachother at all times. If conflicts arise it is the duty of the house to step in and try to play arbiter. If the matters cannot possible be resolved then it is plausible for one of the disputing members to leave their house and find a new patron or disclaim patronage. In such a case the patron needs to be informed before the public so that they are not shamed publically. After this the patron cannot claim rights over a civate who has choosen a new family.
These are what I thought of. Feel free to add more. This is not a law nor do I want it to be. Just a way civates should act.