First off, I checked the ending of the last thread, and yeah it got a little spammy. Don't worry, I'll keep an eye on this one, and make sure everyone stays civilised. So, please do not close this.
Second, I have to give a big apology to you guys for the three days that I wasn't there! Sorry guys. I was, ahem, watching her. And working out plenty of things........and putting up with my god damned parents - and finally - realising that the Girl in question is definitely likely to be the "independent" modern type, not one to be controlled by older men, and certainly not "Stalkers".
The other good news is - I'm not a reject! I didn't build up the courage to meet her at all, so nothing went wrong, but I didn't get anywhere. However, I found out two main things while watching her - one of them on Tuesday afternoon a few days ago, and one this very evening.
The first, on Tuesday, was when I came to the conclusion that those guys who I thought were some sort of much older, "seductive boyfriends" - actually had nothing really to do with her, any more than anyone else. The're probably at least eight to ten years older than her, and more importantly, I noticed something: When she returned in her car on Tuesday afternoon, there were none of those guys in the car with her. Nor were there on Tuesday morning. Thus, she doesn't seem like the type of girl who dates loads of guys - in fact, she doesn't seem to date any at all, which is probably a good thing, as it suggests that there is no one else of her age in the neighbourhood at all, apart from Me, of course. So, once I build up the courage - things will start to look good.
And, those two guys in question seem to be friends not of the girl but of two much older people who own the house, and so I don't think they have anything to do with her any more than knowing her. The're certainly not "Stalkers" - just friends. That doesn't mean that I have to like them, though.
Anyway, on to Friday, this evening tonight: Well, she came back in her car, at about 8.00, or a little bit later than that. What was odd was that when she turned the engine off, she didn't get out of the car. Since it was dark I couldn't see anything, but I had this disgusting feeling that there was the dreadful old yob in the car with her, and - well, I won't say what I was thinking, or dreading, or hating, but I was pretty shocked that nothing had happened. All I could see was shadows, as you do at night. I half-expected some drunken old man to come staggering out of the car, laughing like an idiot. Of course, that didn't happen. All that happened was this: Roughly five minutes passed, and then she just got out of her car. That was it, and there was no other guy there. I guess she was just talking on a mobile phone or something - that's pretty normal. So, nothing to be concerned about. Right now, I'm more feeling guilty for watching her all the time. It's like I am addicted to the presence of a young woman of my age living near me - mostly because she's the only one. Also, I don't think that two, or even three years is much of an age difference. What's more ridiculous is that she's been living there for almost several years now, and only since last year did I even take a serious interest, and yet I've done nothing a year later so far! Oh well..........now I'm stronger, but then I wasn't. That's the price for being a commie pig in the past - I think that lowered my confidence. Now that I am a Far-Rightist, things should turn out better.
Anyway, I just want to say, thanks guys for all of your previous advice, and I look forward to more. Some of your posts were really funny, if a little rude, and I appreciate that. Lord Rahl's advice stood out as the most conservative, which I like, so thanks buddy. However, RZZZA's advice was the best! I am definitely a Nationalist and a Conservative politically, but I am still totally atheist and not socially conservative at all, at least not when it comes to romance or sex, or both. :laughing: Thus, RZZZA's advice would be the one I would take. I'm no Gentleman! Truthfully, if I could just get slightly drunk, appear very strong and determined yet light-hearted and slightly insane, mysterious, etc, maybe that would get her attention. After I display my masculinity by shouting and ranting like a madman and insulting some low-class commie pigs, I would purposefully collapse in a drunken manner. This would encourage her to step closer to me, kneel down next to me(This would be over a day after I've already met her and talked to her, and acted as myself, but upped my confidence greatly), and then I would step up, and holding to the conclusion that she is also slightly drunk(Let's say we have a meal together, but not alone, instead with our friends or our families even, and we both drink a little too much)And fed up with there being no attractive guys around her that are the "Correct" age, save for me - then, I make my move. I'm not sure how I'll do this, but since we will both be lacking judgement and she is likely to find me physically very attractive(I am definitely Not a nerd with glasses - in fact, I never wear glasses, and don't look anything even close to a nerd, nor am I short), this could, assuming she is aroused by me as much as I am by her, even though we wouldn't even by this point know each other very well and are certainly Not in love, lead to sex.
So yeah, I'd basically be going for a one night stand. Thus, RZZZA's advice is indeed the best! Thanks buddy.
And some of your ideas and replies were damn funny and cool, lol. Necromancer especially - your joke about the "Stalkers" and being rejected was pretty funny. :laughing: Thanks.
Anyway, can this thread please be left open? I'll keep an eye on it, don't worry.
Finally: To all of you who assumed she was the kind who believes in all fancy dresses, incredibly feminine stuff and all - don't worry, she isn't. She seems to have absolutely tons of clothes, but she isn't really likely to be rich enough to have brought even most of those herself. The majority of them are normal - she does have some very feminine stuff - last summer, I saw her wearing something looking like a real dress, very feminine, and in black. However, I only saw her wearing this twice. But normally during summer she was wearing very light, skimpy clothing, at least on the occasional warm or hot days - but it wasn't dresses, incredibly expensive stuff or anything - it was, if I should say this, rather "slutty" in style. Not like really low-class or anything - just light, skimpy, girly, etc. It was stuff like light trousers - jeans, and at one time shorts, and a top which left her shoulders, belly, and arms exposed - so, very much girl clothing, but not incredibly wealthy upper-class women's clothing by any means. And that was only in summer. In winter just recently, and still now, most things she wears outside are, obviously, just coats, and ones that are not particularly masculine or feminine.
So, she's as feminine as any average girl, but not upper-class, not low-class, and not really old-fashioned women's clothing. Seems like a good match, eh?
One other thing - and this is something I've known for ages, but didn't previously bother to mention - she loves animals, especially dogs.
Anyway, feel free to comment.
One weird off-topic thing: I had a really weird dream about disabled people and the Sith this early morning. Yeah, the Sith from Star Wars, in a hellish setting. Totally weird. I could post it if you like. But, back on topic.