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    Default Why won't this girl ever text me first

    I always have to text her first and she seems to enjoy the conversations, and she continues them. I tried waiting a week and she still hasn't texted me.

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    Default Re: Why won't this girl ever text

    Cos she's a girl. She's clearly not into you anyway, I suggest talking to her in real life, texting is for agoraphobes.
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    Er, a lot of girls are that way. There's a chance she's busy and can't be interested all the time. But hey, if she likes the conversation, that's a step in the right direction

    edit: yes, I agree, talk to her in person too

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    Default Re: Why won't this girl ever text

    I do everyday, but if she wasn't interested she wouldn't be continuing the conversation. I know I wouldn't. For instance I'll just say lol to end a topic and then she'll ask about my day or something like that.

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    Default Re: Why won't this girl ever text

    Quote Originally Posted by Robertclive View Post
    I do everyday, but if she wasn't interested she wouldn't be continuing the conversation. I know I wouldn't. For instance I'll just say lol to end a topic and then she'll ask about my day or something like that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Heinz Guderian View Post
    lol
    I lol'd.

    Anyway, she's not into you. She enjoys the conversations whenever they pop up but she can apparently do fine without them too. Trust me, she's not sitting next to her phone waiting for an incoming message like you are.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Dude View Post
    I lol'd.

    Anyway, she's not into you. She enjoys the conversations whenever they pop up but she can apparently do fine without them too. Trust me, she's not sitting next to her phone waiting for an incoming message like you are.
    Then why did she give me her number or invite me to hang out with her everyday.

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    Then hang out with her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Robertclive View Post
    Then why did she give me her number or invite me to hang out with her everyday.
    She's focused elsewhere. I had the same problem back in the day (except the girl I was dealing with was a complete slut) so I gave up. Why invest your time in someone who won't reciprocate?
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    I do, but I'm confused on why she won't text me first. We're not going out, but I'm sure other people think so because they us. She is a straight A student, so could that be a conflict?

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    Is she from Poland?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Robertclive View Post
    I do, but I'm confused on why she won't text me first. We're not going out, but I'm sure other people think so because they us. She is a straight A student, so could that be a conflict?
    If she's the type who is dedicated to her studies then yes. If she loves to socialise then she's clearly not interested.

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    Is she from Poland?
    EDIT: I see what you did there...
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    Default Re: Why won't this girl ever text me first

    Well, she gets on facebook like twice a month, so I guess it's the first option

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    Quote Originally Posted by Robertclive View Post
    Well, she gets on facebook like twice a month, so I guess it's the first option
    Don't put all of your eggs in one basket. I personally wouldn't text her again no matter how long it took for her to take the time to contact you (she's disrespecting you by making you do all the running whether she's busy or not). Girls take that as a sign of weakness (according to my girlfriend who is reading over my shoulder).
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    Default Re: Why won't this girl ever text me first

    She's texted me once before, lol.
    Last edited by Robertclive; April 03, 2011 at 05:34 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Robertclive View Post
    She's texted me once before, lol.
    Once? You have to draw the line somewhere!
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    Default Re: Why won't this girl ever text me first

    How am I suppose to ditch this girl. I like her and she talks to me everyday and asks if I'm going to be in her class everyday too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Robertclive View Post
    How am I suppose to ditch this girl. I like her and she talks to me everyday and asks if I'm going to be in her class everyday too.
    Don't ditch her, just don't initiate a texting conversation for a while and give her some room to breathe. My girl thinks you've been friendzoned though .
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    If you don't make a move on her very soon, she'll be taken by someone more bold and confident and you'll end up forever alone.
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    How have I been friendzoned? I haven't texted her in week. I'm making my move tomorrow. We've only truly known each other for 2 weeks.

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