How do you choose between decisions to make when no matter the option it isn't acceptable? My morality has long been guided through a logic that was so crystal clear that I've never had difficulty deciding how to act and what to do. However the concept of a love triangle, or even square or whatever shape you want to think about has thrown me for a loop.
Person A proposes to the Love Interest that they are interested in them. Person A and the love interest have been friends for many years, they have grown close but despite the Love Interest's best attempts Person A has always avoided a romantic relationship. Now the love interest would have little difficulty deciding if Person A was the only person to to suggest a romantic relationship.
Person B has had an interest in the Love interest for quite some time, in response to Person A's declaration person B also makes a declaration of their feelings. The Love Interest has been there for person B in times of hardship and gradually restored person B's optimism and happiness perhaps even stronger than before.
Person C makes no declaration however their interest in the Love Interest has been apparent for some time. Person C is a shy inhibited person but the Love Interest has a knack at seeing through this and offering them what they desire. Person C grows depressed at the declarations of the other two although it's clear that they were it not for their fears want to be with the Love Interest too. Worse all 3 are part of the same peer group and friends with each other as well.
Now here's the conflict. The love interest's only motivation in helping these 3 people has always been their friendship and happiness. While his relationship with person A has history to it, the depth of the relationship is about equal to the depth of the relationships with the other two. Each of the three are attractive, intelligent and have a depth of character that interests the Love Interest. More importantly the Love Interest's motivation to keep everyone happy is still present. Is there any possible way to make them all happy without hurting any of them?
No matter what I try, the solution to this seems completely obscured. Personal tastes aside I don't know if there's a legitimate way for the Love Interest to choose between any of the three. Over and over I turn to the idea of polygamy and immediately turn away. Does anyone else see a solution to this moral problem?
Essentially what's the solution to to a love triangle in which each person is about equal.