While I feel like I do understand women to some degree, I just dont get what they want from flirting.
I just have no idea how to react to it.
Occasionly when I go out for dinner with my family for some occasion, a waitress is flirting with me, or at least I suspect she is, it always remains a rather grey area with women.
It just doesnt go further than eye contact though, with her being at work it wouldnt be right to show more initiative so it would be up to me to take it a step further, having the entire family there including my parents, brother, sisters and their partners and children doesnt help much either.
What should I do? what should I say?
Thats the most common situation of flirting I find myself in, more general occasions with some eyecontact in a store, in the streets or anywhere else would probably need a different approach, but I wouldnt really know how to go about that first step there either.
The only situation that I do know what to do is when at a dancefloor for ballroom and latin dancing, I can dance so then it only requires a polite smile and an extended hand to ask a girl to dance, and then the talk comes during the dance.
Sadly these evenings are few, and usually attract very few single girls in my prefered age group.