So I got Mount and Blade a days ago and it's amazing, what mods do you play?
I was looking at a few ones that were quite good from little stuff like allowing entrechment to total conversions like Star Wars conquest.
Have you tried Entrenchment kit?
Then you have to try Ranger Company: It features the entrenchment kit but also rangers/spies to send after nearby enemies,
spy in town, order sabotage, poison enemies, trade with nearby allies, pay allies to follow you or attack enemies for you, a trade wagon for all the loot you can't carry etc. etc. It's ingenious
http://www.mbrepository.com/file.php?id=1616
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