Now, I am just going to say, I disagree with the idea of a child outside marriage, not because of a religious taboo, but for a practical reasoning. A child, in my opinion, is a massively larger step in life than marriage, in the sense that if you get married to someone, it can be easily corrected, just a divorce and that is it (of course it isn't as simple as that, but you get my dirft).
However, having a child outside of marriage is irreversable. Once the child is born, that is it, no paperwork is available to officially end the childs relationship with you. I amn't talking about accidental births, I mean people planning on haveing kids.
So what in your opinion is a bigger step in life, a child or marriage?