Here is what I am finding on multi-player: there is no shortage of immature people here either. I am not going to get into what’s been said or the attitude.
My advice is to join a mature and well policed clan and establish a friends list of people who you feel make your gaming experience rewarding.
Also be wary of the host who has no rules. He set up on a hill with loads of arty, sets up stakes all around the borders, three sides mind you because he’s border camping. I guess they feel they are being challenged somewhat but haven’t figured out how yet.
Just my observations, what are your?