LOL. Yeah... Not trying to be sexist or anything but I'm finding I have a whole lot of widows just hogging up "family" slots in my tree. Since births are some how tied to amount of provinces/generals/princess I'm finding that after a while widows begin to cluster up the birth ratio and I often have to wait for one of them to die before another family member is born.
Last night was when I really "noticed" the problem. I had 6 widows and 4 families without any children. All of the widows were finally getting ready to croak and sure enough a few turns later all of them were dead. Lo-and-behold after all of the old bags were dead each family had a kid, two of them even had two kids one turn after the other.
So yeah, those women need to die faster I don't mind them living till 65 when they have a husband, but the fact is that usually their husband dies because of battle. Then you're stuck with a useless widow that sucks up a family slot until she croaks around 65. The thing is sometimes you can be left with a widow as young as 20 if you get dealt a bad hand of cards.
So is there anyway to make it so women can only live till around 50-55? I was thinking in the "descr_campaign_db" adding this line "old_age_female" but I have honestly no idea if it would work.